Welcome to The Edit—a collection of personal essays, observations, and photography about life as it is: beautiful, complicated, funny, occasionally messy, and always changing.
Each entry is an Edit, a closer look at something worth noticing. Friendship and family. Travel and home. Growing older and knowing ourselves better. The things we carry, the things we let go, and the small pleasures that make an ordinary day feel like something more.
Some Edits ask questions. Some tell stories. Others simply stop long enough to notice something I don't want to forget.
These stories may begin with me, but so much of what we feel, question, carry, and celebrate is shared. I hope you'll find something here that speaks to you, too.
THE EDIT
Edit 56: Ten Things—June
Ten things the month of June gave to our family, and my gratitude for each and every one.
Edit 52: Turning the Lens Around
Life, Edited has largely looked outward—at places, people, family. This month, something shifted. After a month in Tokyo, a reflection on ikigai, identity, and learning to carry that version of yourself home.
Edit 50:The Slowdown
A week of chasing every minute with Madeline gave way to something quieter: cheesecake, a slow walk through the Nezu Museum gardens, and the strange, grounding feeling of finally wandering with no destination, and meaning it.
Edit 49: Fast and Fabulous
Madeline planned the whole night—Nissan GT-Rs, secret parking garages, and six hours through Tokyo's underground car culture. I went along for the ride and left with more than I expected.
Edit 48: The Front Row Seat
Jackson turns eighteen today. Standing here in Tokyo—the city where he first reached for my hand from a stroller—I find myself thinking less about the milestone and more about the thousands of ordinary days that led here. This is what I've learned about parenthood, time, and the quiet honor of watching someone grow into exactly who they were always meant to be.
Edit 47: Reflected
It is rare—genuinely rare—that I leave an exhibition still carrying it hours later, turning it over and over until the only way through is to write. Ron Mueck's exhibition at the Mori Art Museum was that kind of rare.
Edit 46: The Return
Jackson said it first, somewhere between the airport and Minamiazabu : “It doesn't feel like we're back in Japan.”. Maybe that's because a part of us never really left. We're back for a month, at the beginning of rainy season, and right where we belong.
Edit 29: Ten Things
Life has been a lot lately—the beautiful, overwhelming, blink-and-you'll-miss-it kind of a lot. So before March gets away from me entirely, I'm doing what any reasonable person does when the calendar is full and the heart is fuller: I'm making a list.