Welcome to The Edit—a collection of personal essays, observations, and photography about life as it is: beautiful, complicated, funny, occasionally messy, and always changing.
Each entry is an Edit, a closer look at something worth noticing. Friendship and family. Travel and home. Growing older and knowing ourselves better. The things we carry, the things we let go, and the small pleasures that make an ordinary day feel like something more.
Some Edits ask questions. Some tell stories. Others simply stop long enough to notice something I don't want to forget.
These stories may begin with me, but so much of what we feel, question, carry, and celebrate is shared. I hope you'll find something here that speaks to you, too.
THE EDIT
Edit 50:The Slowdown
A week of chasing every minute with Madeline gave way to something quieter: cheesecake, a slow walk through the Nezu Museum gardens, and the strange, grounding feeling of finally wandering with no destination, and meaning it.
Edit 41: What We Talk About Now
There was a time when most of our conversations revolved around reminders. Did you eat? Did you finish your homework? Don't forget your jacket. Somewhere between motherhood and womanhood, we found a new language for each other.
Edit 39: Ten Things—April
April has been a whirlwind—a beautiful, exhausting, electric, deeply good whirlwind. But before May sweeps in and takes over, here are ten things I don't want to forget.
Edit 38: The ‘Almost’
There's a word for the moment before: not the ending, not the beginning—the suspended place between them, where everything still is, yet everything is already changing. I've been living in that word for months now. It's called ‘almost’.
Edit 36:Twenty-Six
Twenty-six trips around the sun—and somehow, with every single one, she's only become more wonderfully, unmistakably herself. This Edit is for Madeline, on her birthday.
Edit 17: Consider Me Corrected
A lovely reminder—from my journalist daughter—that em dashes matter. Noted.
Edit 8: The Holiday
A holiday escape to Charleston-a change of scenery, a choice for presence, and a reminder that tradition moves with the people you love.